Si bodoh mana yang cakap ni, aku takspent 8hrs everyday in lab to develop quantum safe data centre to be called allergic to tech innovation.
I dont even like security like ??????
Tapi aku yg bekerja keras untuk ni???
Two thirds of Alzheimer’s patients are women. Not because women live longer, but because estrogen protects the brain. When it’s suddenly stripped away, the brain literally shrinks. Brain fog in your 40s isn’t “just stress.” It’s a red flag. But instead of addressing hormones, women are gaslight with antidepressants or told to meditate. Fast forward 20 years and she’s in a nursing home and can’t remember her own kids. This isn’t “normal aging.” It’s medical negligence. And despite most Alzheimer’s patients being women, much of the research is still done on male mice instead of female mice. That’s not science, that’s neglect.”
I told my mom I wasn't attracted to a guy who liked me and she told me to give him a chance. I said guys don't give girls they're not attracted to a chance so why should I do it? Silence at the dinner table
The feeling of being undervalued was so violent it took my breath away. Not for ONE SECOND did I cross his mind. The existence of his own wife was completely erased at that event. He preferred the smile and gratitude of a coworker over mine. He preferred the social applause of being the "nice guy." When I confronted him, the worst part came. He called me dramatic and crazy. He said it "would look bad" for a man to accept makeup in front of everyone and that he couldn't refuse the moment.
A Malaysian motion graphics creator has gone viral for turning everyday Malaysian road and traffic signs into fun animations.
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@nireshkaur I bought a milk bun bcs it was weekend and most shops are not opened yet. The bun actually same quality as the dry instance small pau we usually saw at pasar 😭. As broke ass student, I questioned my decision a lot that day
@Bibertol_ Men:
Also men:
OwooWo mEn LoNeLiNeSs iS rEAlLlL tHisS iS wHat feMinIsT diD To sOcieTy
Tapi sebenarnya sendiri bongok takde ihsan kat pasangan bila ada. Pastu lah pelikk kenapa takde orang nak kahwin. Fork found in the kitchen
Perempuan single di sini, kalau aku call kawan lelaki aku pun diaorang tahu nak jawab,
"Tak sure lah, cuba tengok ada tumpah ke. Cuba describe apa jadi"
"Oh, ni kau boleh cuba call mechanic. Area mana ni? Nak aku datang tengokkan ke"
Kak, hg kahwin dengan lelaki tak guna
여자에 대한 편견은 남자만 가진다고 생각했는데, 최근에야 나도 가지고 있었다는 걸 깨달았다.
회사에서 라벨 하나 삐뚤게 붙여도
남자직원이 그러면 그냥 그러려니 했는데,
여직원이 그러면 순간
“칠칠맞네.”
“보기와 다르게 야무지지 못하네.”
라고 생각해버린 적이 있다.
어느 날은 점심에 중국집에 갔는데,
여직원이 자장면 곱빼기를 시키는 순간
사람들 시선이 묘하게 몰리는 걸 봤다.
나는 “뭐 어때요?” 하고
그 직원을 대변하듯 말했지만,
사실 나 또한 속으로는 특이하다고 생각하고 있었다.
라벨 하나, 밥 한 그릇, 말투 하나, 표정 하나. 이런 사소한 것까지 여자들은 계속 평가받는 일상에 놓여 있었던 거다.
단정해야 하고, 조심해야 하고, 적당히 먹어야 하고, 실수해도 “여자가 왜 저래”가 되지 않게 살아야 한다는 것.
이게 억압이라는 걸 깨닫고 나니까 너무 놀라웠다.
여성 우울이 꼭 큰 사건 하나에서만 오는 게 아니라, 매일매일 이런 사소한 감시 속에서 나를 계속 검열하다가 오는 걸 수도 있겠구나 싶었다.
그리고 그 감시 속에 나 또한 일조하고 있었을 거라는 생각도 들었다.