tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
Men openly admit that the defraud women by deceiving them that they want a relationship merely to access sex, then gaslight the woman that it’s her fault the relationship didn’t work.
But when feminists talk about this we’re making it up.
The way people respond to a bubbly personality really concerns me. Ever since I was a kid I noticed how people try to break your spirit when you’re too nice, too happy, too outgoing, too friendly. People that wanna know why you’re so gung-ho are unwell and are out to get you
So I am watching a series, and it is showing me that when a person doesn't love you back, you become annoying to them. Many times it is not you, their heart is just somewhere else. Finding romantic love is statistically hard. I really hope people are kinder to themselves.
If I was a horse and you led me to water I’d also wonder why did you bring me here?? Now I must perform for you whole time I’m not even thirsty, I’m not your puppet I drank water at home before you brought me here without asking