Fall in love with some activity, and do it! Nobody ever figures out what life is all about, and it doesn't matter. Explore the world. Nearly everything is really interesting if you go into it deeply enough. Work as hard and as much as you want to on the things you like to do the best. Don't think about what you want to be, but what you want to do. Keep up some kind of a minimum with other things so that society doesn't stop you from doing anything at all.
الحقيقة أنّ الزواج بالشريك الصحيح ، يُعتبر أعظم النِّعم على الإطلاق، نعمةُ الوَنس والصُّحبة لا تُقارَن، الزواج أفضل علاقة إنسانيّة يُمكن أن تجعل الإنسان أخفّ نفساً، وأطيب روحاً، وأكثر التفاتاً للحياة.
The Sufi masters knew that any great illusionary passion was the unrecognized beginning of the love of God; and we today see it as the vehicle of the process of individuation, as behind all human love lies ultimately the fascination with.. the Self.~Marie-Louise von Franz