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Think beyond the obvious

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If your Mum is alive, may she have a long life to witness your success.

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Every woman wants a good man until that man sets boundaries.
Then suddenly, he’s"controlling."

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women only set rules for men they are not into

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Wom*n who are in their 30s don’t marry for love.

Learn Or Perish!!!

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10. They do not respect their partner.

Respect is the foundation of loyalty. When you respect your partner, you do not betray them. You do not lie to them. You do not humiliate them. Partners who cheat do not respect their partner. They may love them.

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Partners who cheat in a relationship all share the same traits:

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9. They lack accountability.

Nothing is ever their fault. The affair happened because their partner neglected them. Because the other person pursued them. Because they were lonely. Because they were drunk. Because they were unhappy. There is always an excuse.

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8. They are emotionally immature.

They do not know how to handle difficult emotions. They do not know how to process pain. They do not know how to communicate their needs. So they escape. They escape into fantasy. They escape into validation.

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7. They have a history of cheating.

Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. A person who has cheated before is more likely to cheat again. This is not judgment. It is data. The patterns are established. The neural pathways are formed.

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6. They are conflict avoidant.

Instead of addressing problems in the relationship, they avoid them. They do not communicate. They do not confront. They do not repair. They let the resentment build.

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5. They have poor boundaries.

They do not know how to say no. They do not know how to set limits. They do not know how to protect the relationship from outside influences. They have private conversations with members of the opposite sex. They entertain flirtation.

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4. They are attention-seeking.

They need constant validation. They need to feel desired. They need to feel wanted. They need to be the center of someone's world. When their partner stops providing that validation, they seek it elsewhere.

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3. They are chronically dissatisfied.

Nothing is ever enough. They have a good partner. A stable relationship. A comfortable life. But they always want more. They always feel like something is missing. This chronic dissatisfaction is a hole that cannot be filled.

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2. They lack empathy.

To cheat, you must be able to disconnect from your partner's pain. You must be able to imagine the betrayal and decide it does not matter. Partners who cheat are often able to compartmentalize. They can separate their actions from the consequences.

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1. They have poor impulse control.

Infidelity is rarely a planned event. It is a moment of weakness. A moment where the impulse overrides the commitment. Partners who cheat have a harder time saying no to temptation. They struggle to delay gratification.

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Pray, not until God hears you, but until you hear God

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A man should be able to enjoy his own company without needing a woman to feel complete.

[Alexandra Moreau @SmoothApproach7]

Never marry these women:

1. Nurses

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MAN to MAN:
Once you begin to understand the FEMALE nature.
You will NEVER ever chase a woman again.

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If she respects you,
you won't have to constantly remind her how to treat you.

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May you heal so hard you can decorate your home and have hobbies again. If you don't have a clue what this means, consider yourself fortunate.