no millennial trope has broken more brains than "you don't owe anybody anything". an ignoble, selfish narcissism dressed up in therapy-speak about boundaries and self-care in order to give yourself a pass from treating other people with a basic level of care and respect
@webegga This is why I joke about kinning elves so damn much bc everyone knows there is something deeply wrong with me no matter how much I try to hide it lol