After talking to my wife, I’ve come to the conclusion that I wish all of for my marginalized/neurodiverse friends and peeps who struggle with imposter syndrome to have the confidence of a mediocre allistic straight cis white man.
@rafaelender@jessicamalonso@nosilverv Sticks to convictions even when not popular, random people apologize years later and you tell them it's no big deal you forgot and actually forgive them bc you probably didn't care and did forget, unbothered, undeterred, probably too lazy to go to reunion, driving truck not limo
@rafaelender@jessicamalonso@nosilverv Direct and sustained eye contact if they catch you talking about them, rides horses bareback without a bridle, knows animals even better than people, broke first horse as a child, kept telling horse stories to class even tho bully would read story about dead horses being dogfood