Walaupun sekarang better tp aku berharap ilmu di pendidikan formal ku ini suatu hari kepake lg. Aamiin.
Sekarang enjoy. Cm kadang masih dicurhatin pengganti aku kalo dia lg diuber2 kesalahannya. I told u. ☺️☺️
Hampir 8 tahun kerja di perusahaan, Senin s.d Sabtu. Bertahan karena butuh uang. Beruntung punya hobi, dari hobi itu malah jadi penghasilan tambahan dan sekarang malah jadi penghasilan utama.
Walaupun dibilang OFFSIDE, who cares? Waktu sehari cm kepake 3 jam maksimal, gaji lebih, sering 2x lipat dr gaji yg kemarin. Di perusahan yll aku dapet pelecehan (difoto diam2 dan disebarkan), kerjain kerjaan yg bukan jobdesc, gaji cm naik seratus ribu tiap tahun.
New never-before-seen footage of the cast that brought George R.R. Martin’s world to life, wrapping their final scenes in celebration of the 15th anniversary of HBO’s ‘GAME OF THRONES.’
sok asik lu.
coretax nih ribet
mau lapor SPT tahunan aja susahnya setengah mampus. lu yang nerima duitnya.. lu juga yang nyuruh kita lapor.
tunkin paling gede, tapi kerja memble.
harusnya cukup unggah berkas sekali beres. ini ribet banget.
Pernah denger ceramah seorang Muslim scholar dari UK yang membahas rasionalisasi perintah hijab dgn sudut pandang yg menurut gue jauh lebih presisi secara teologis.
He said that it’s clear bahwa tujuan utama hijab bkn untuk membantu laki2 mengontrol hawa nafsunya.
My wife stopped fighting with me in 2018.
I thought we'd finally figured it out.
No more arguments about the dishes. No more sighing when I forgot something. No more asking me to help with things I should've noticed myself.
Peace.
That's what I called it.
For two years I lived in that silence thinking we'd reached some kind of marital maturity.
Then one night—11 PM, night before Thanksgiving—I found her crying in the kitchen.
Making pie crust from scratch because my mother had made a comment the year before about store-bought being "fine, I guess."
I asked what was wrong.
She looked at me like I was a stranger.
"Nothing."
That's when I realized:
She hadn't stopped fighting because things were better.
She stopped fighting because she stopped believing I would ever change.
The silence wasn't peace.
It was resignation.
She'd built her entire life around my absence…while I was still in the house. Eating the food she cooked. Sleeping in the bed she made. Parenting the kids she was raising.
And I called it partnership because I brought home a paycheck.
Most men don't have a marriage problem.
They have an absence problem.
Their wives stopped asking because asking hurt too much.
So they carry it alone. The meals. The schedules. The mental load. The holidays.
And we sit on the couch checking our phones thinking "at least we're not fighting anymore."
Brother, fighting would be better.
Anger means she still believes you could change.
Silence means she made peace with the fact that you won't.
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving.
Your wife is going to wake up before you. Start cooking while you sleep. Manage the chaos while you watch the parade. Clean up while you digest.
Unless you don't let her.
I wrote the protocol for coming home to a marriage you've been absent from.
The 5 stages of wifely resignation.
Why "I'll do better" doesn't work anymore.
The 30-day silent rebuilding system.
The conversation she needs to hear.
It's called "When She Stopped Asking."
Link below if you want it.
But whether you buy it or not—wake up first tomorrow.