I definitely don’t think people talk enough about just how MEAN depression makes you. When everything feels pointless and stupid and awful and overwhelming, when you’re prepared to expect the worst from people, you hate everyone and everything so much
if men stopped doing all the heavy duty, necessary, dirty jobs that make the world run...women would do them. we already know this, it happened in WWII.
if women stopped doing the thankless, routine care work that makes the world go round, vulnerable people would be neglected.
When a woman talks about abuse, some men immediately say: "What about false accusations?"
Notice how the empathy first goes to imaginary innocent men and not the real victims? That reflex says a lot.