@jon_d_doe First thing I observed from the write up is that they both live in different location.
Secondly, what are his plans for her aside the idea of marriage he is selling to her, because 5months into a relationship is rather too sudden. Just use your tongue to count your teeth.
This thread is going to be long.
So please take time to read it when you're able to.
Every generation is meant to stand on the shoulders of the one before it.
A good father desires his son to become not merely a copy of himself, but a better version of what he started.
Likewise, a loving mother hopes her son grows into a man of integrity, wisdom, and responsibility. The purpose of family is not stagnation but progress.
A father is often a son's first example of manhood. Whether through his successes, sacrifices, mistakes, or virtues, he teaches lessons that no classroom can fully replicate.
Looking up to one's father does not mean believing he is perfect. Every father is human and will have strengths and weaknesses. Rather, it means recognizing the value of his journey, his sacrifices, and the wisdom gained through his experiences.
A son who respects his father gains several advantages:
1. He learns discipline and responsibility.
2. He understands the value of hard work and perseverance.
3. He gains insight from lessons already paid for through his father's struggles.
4. He develops a sense of identity and belonging.
A wise son studies both what his father did right and what he did wrong. The father's victories become examples to follow, while his failures become lessons to learn from.
To become better than one's father is not an act of disrespect. In fact, it is one of the highest forms of honor.
A father who built a small business hopes his son builds a larger one. A father who attained a certain level of education hopes his son goes further.
A father who overcame poverty hopes his son experiences prosperity. Progress is the natural goal of every healthy family line.
Being "better" does not necessarily mean earning more money. It can mean:
1. Having greater emotional intelligence.
2. Being a better husband.
3. Being a more present father.
4. Living with more integrity.
5. Making wiser decisions.
The true measure of success is not merely wealth but becoming a more complete and mature individual.
If each generation only equals the previous one, society stands still. If each generation improves upon the last, families flourish.
A mother often makes sacrifices that are unseen and uncelebrated. She carries, nurtures, protects, teaches, comforts, and often puts the needs of her children above her own.
Honoring a mother involves more than words. It means:
1. Speaking respectfully to her.
2. Appreciating her sacrifices.
3. Supporting her when she grows older.
4. Protecting her dignity.
5. Showing gratitude for her role in your life.
A man's treatment of his mother often reveals much about his character. If he cannot appreciate the woman who raised him, it becomes difficult for him to fully appreciate other women in his life.
Honoring a mother does not require agreement with every opinion she holds. Mature honor can coexist with independent thinking.
A son can make his own decisions while still showing love and respect.
One of the most important decisions a man will ever make is choosing a wife.
A wife becomes:
1. A life partner.
2. A confidant.
3. A supporter during difficult seasons.
4. A co-builder of the family.
5. The future mother of his children.
A good wife contributes not only to a man's happiness but also to his growth and stability.
When choosing a wife, a man should evaluate qualities such as:
1. Character.
2. Kindness.
3. Emotional maturity.
4. Wisdom.
5. Loyalty.
Beauty may attract attention, but character sustains relationships.
A wise man understands that the person he marries will influence the direction of his life for decades. Therefore, choosing a spouse should be guided by wisdom rather than impulse.
@jon_d_doe Good morning sir, sincerely, if you convert all these wisdom God has entrusted you with into books, you will save this generation and the generation after that will come from self destruction...God continue to keep you sir. You will not lack in every area of your life. Amen
Good day, @RemitaNET I made a payment on the remita platform to renew my NEPC certificate. It took me to the check out segment and I clicked on (I've sent the money).
I was debited. On going back to my dashboard on the NEPC website it's showing UNPAID. Please look into this.
By the special gift of knowledge that God has given me, I make bold to say that I've saved thousands of marriages & brought life into them.
Including the marriages of my haters.
I don't need your public praises.
You know that I've helped you.
Deal with it.
End.
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Pain is temporary....👌
Quitting lasts forever....👍
Shut down the noise...😝
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Welcome to November, my authentic X-family ✨️
We need more stadiums in the country that can host International standard games for the Super Eagles—traveling to Uyo is a big stress on its own in every angle.
Agbafians: The body is comprised of many hormones and glands that secrete hormones. Sometimes our actions and behaviors are influenced by these hormones, which are released into the bloodstream and target specific glands, referring to the exocrine and endocrine systems.
The point is that both males and females experience humoral and hormonal fluctuations that trigger certain behaviors, especially in response to stress and the glands' ability to secrete hormones properly. This is particularly true for the thyroid, which plays a crucial role in alertness and physical activity.
When you notice your husband being moody, give him space. Put some chilled beer in the fridge along with some snacks he likes. After you see him eating, shower up, wear some skimpy shorts, spread your legs, and trim his fingernails and toenails. Stand on his back, then hug him and go lay down in your room, make sure your nyansh set properly.
For women, if your man is moody, give her space. Don’t take her nagging too seriously; call her sweet names, get her bath salts and scented candles, and buy her chocolate. Subscribe to a cable service she enjoys. Then go hang out with your friends while keeping in touch with her. Don’t stay out too late, and pick up a little gift on your way back.
You both need to be on board with this. Watch your relationship blossom!
There’s this girl I met in Mangu camp, she was not fluent in Ibibio but was better at speaking Yoruba.
When she sees me, she’ll switch to Ibibio, she’ll struggle till she finishes that sentence in Ibibio. I liked her a lot.
@Godswill_orung It's not in Lagos alone it's all over... they see you as a plague once they find out you are from akwaibom state.... It passed from the father's to the children's children, that's why we dey always dey among the minorities... But we have to change that narrative
@jon_d_doe You are one in a million boss..Your children will indeed be the happiest kids on earth for having a father like you...God bless you immensely for all you do for the world.... You are indeed creating values and impacting lives....