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[CocoLoco @DreamsInFrames]

I've come across several posts stating Alya leaving had less to do with Boran and Meryem's evil machinations and more to do with the ambiguity surrounding Meryem (in relation to Ciho) and Alya's exhaustion.

I disagree.

While Alya was exhausted and rightly so, she kept fighting against Meryem in that van until Boran steps in and threatens to marry Meryem and take Serhat away from Cihan for good.

To me, her breakdown, the way she crumbles in front of Deniz, the way her eyes keep searching for Cihan at the airport mean quite clearly that she didn't want to leave.

She wants to be with Cihan and she feels horrible for leaving him at the meydan all alone.

But she hardens her heart and agrees to step away for one reason only - so that Cihan's chance at fatherhood isn't harmed by her presence again.

As for Cihan, I think Alya's absence will accomplish what her presence couldn't.

Cihan sometimes measures the strength of feelings by loss. In his mind, Meryem's presence looms large because losing her coincided on the same day as losing his father and his freedom.

So, the pain was all mixed up, if you get my drift.

But as we saw in the finale, even though Cihan's hands are covered in Şahin's blood, when he looks at that plane and realizes what's happened, the only thing that escapes his lips is 'Alya.'

Despite all kinds of grief and agony surrounding him at the meydan, the pain that takes precedence is losing Alya.

And that, I think, will only intensify when he learns the truth of why she leaves.

Which in turn will help Cihan understand what he thought was love in the past wasn't really it because the devastation he feels this time is unlike anything he's ever experienced.

As for Alya, she's way more attached to Cihan than she realizes. I feel her devastation will be off the charts too.

In other words, both of them will realize that this isn't something they can walk away from.

That this kind of love leaves life feeling unrecognizable in the other's absence. Because once someone becomes your home, every place without them feels like exile.

Aka, this separation will likely shatter everything they thought they understood about love yet again 🤷‍♀️
#CihAl #UzakŞehir

[YGT @y_t_g15]

🟢أنا أشوف إن اللي يقولون كان المفروض عليا تواجه جيهان وتعلمه بالتهديد معهم حق من الناحيه المنطقيه لأن الموضوع يخصه وكان المفروض يقررون سوا مو هي تقرر عنه
🟢لكن نفسيا فيه فرق بين إن القرار يكون غلط وبين إن دوافعه تكون مفهومه
♦️عليا بالبدايه ما كانت ناويه تسافر أول ما عرفت بموضوع الطفل قالت بتقول لجيهان ونشوف قراره وما تغير موقفها إلا بعد تهديد بوران
♦️وهي ما صدقت مريم من فراغ قالت لها إني أثق فيك من ثقه جيهان فيك يعني كانت فعلا مصدقه إن الطفل ممكن يكون ولده
♦️لكن بوران هددها إنه إذا تزوجت جيهان بياخذ الطفل ويسافر فيه برا البلد وبيحرمه منه حتى لو بحث عنه سنوات ما راح يلقاه وهنا ضغط على أكثر نقطه حساسه عند عليا لأنها عاشت بنفسها الخوف من فقدان دينيز وعرفت معنى إن الطفل يصير وسيله ضغط فحطت نفسها مكان جيهان وخافت يعيش نفس عذابها بسببها
♦️وتكرار تاثير تهديدات بوران عليها وقراراتها المتسرعه وعدم رجوعها لجيهان ما أشوفه ضعف شخصيه قد ما يكشف عيب متكرر فيها وهو إنها وقت الخوف تتحمل كل شي لحالها وتحاول تحمي اللي تحبهم بطريقتها بدون ما تشاركهم القرار وبوران كل مره يعرف يضغط عليها من نفس النقطه وهي الطفل وفقدانه وكونها تعرف إنه شخص سيء ما يخليها تستهين بتهديده بالعكس يخليها تعرف إنه ممكن ينفذه
♦️وعليا بطبيعتها تشوف الحب حمايه وتضحيه وهي تعرف إن جيهان لو عرف ما راح يسكت وبيواجههم وممكن شافت إن المواجهه بتفتح حرب أكبر وحتى عدم مواجهتها له ممكن لأنها تعرف إنها لو شافته بتضعف وما تقدر تتركه وهو بعد ما راح يخليها تسافر
♦️يعني رحيلها ما يعني إنها ما تحبه أو إن البعد عنه سهل عليها بالعكس هي أقنعت نفسها إن خسارتها له أهون من إنها تكون السبب في خسارته لولده
🟢ودراميا لو قالت له من البدايه وانحلت المشكله ما كان صار الفراق والتصعيد واختيار يوم زواجهم يرفع الصدمه ويخلي المواجهه ورجوعهم لبعض أقوى عاطفيا
🔹يعني منطقيا قرارها غلط لأنها كان المفروض تشارك جيهان الحقيقه وتعطيه حق يقرر
🔹ونفسيا قرارها مفهوم لأنه نابع من خوف عاشته بنفسها ومن شخصيتها اللي تشوف الحب حمايه وتضحيه حتى لو كانت طريقتها غلط
🔷ودراميا قرارها يخدم القصه ويصنع الفراق والمواجهه ويخلي رجوعهم لبعض أقوى عاطفيا
✨فهم دوافع عليا مو تبرير لقرارها هو تفسير ليش شخصيه مثلها ممكن تتخذ قرار غلط وهي مقتنعه إنها تحمي الشخص اللي تحبه✨

[mg @mgy_ib]

@nesmatr22 @llls1111 جربت فعل cc
مع auto translate to english
يعني ممكن شوفو هيك 😁

[mg @mgy_ib]

@Tarneem900 جولي ❤️
هي عاملة كايا غبي..
geri zekalı ع قولة جيهان
ما بيعرف يحط 1+1 و يفهم انو ديمير كان عم يهددها طول الوقت
شاهين ما كتير بدقق بمشاهدو 🙈 بس لا يمنع انو عندو غباء
و ع فكرة حسب ما بتذكر بداية الموسم كانت مشاهد شاهين جدا قليلة

[mg @mgy_ib]

@rosh4_ أنا ما بطيقو لايلون من لما غير الطائر الازرق الجميل و اسم تويتر يلي كلو عبارة عن cuteness للاشارة السودا البشعة الحالية

Anyway.. welcome back 😁

[mg @mgy_ib]

@rosh432_ السهرة اليوم كانت ع الحلقة 17
باعتراف المحكمة بيحكي انو هو hayran
بوثائق الدولة الرسمية حكا هالتعبير أول مرة 🥹

و على ما يبدو لسا تويتر عندك خربان كونو لسا ما كملتي حكي عن الحلقة ☹️

[mg @mgy_ib]

@orchid__77 أنا حابة اتشكرك لانك عم تشكري جولي 😁

[mg @mgy_ib]

@rosh432_ اكيد بدي ياها تطلع.. بس كمان ما بدي مرور زمني و لا حتى يومين

[mg @mgy_ib]

@rosh432_ ألف مبروك يا فيكو 🎉🎉

[mg @mgy_ib]

@rosh432_ @Rovanari عليا من اللبس تبعها ممكن تعرفي شو هو المشهد
أما جيهان صعب الموضوع معو 😭😭

و ع فكرة انا بحب شعرها بالموسم الاول اكتر
بس بتخيل هيك صار شعرها اهدأ و أقل "تمردا" تعبيرا عن عليا نفسها تجاه جيهان

[mg @mgy_ib]

@nesmatr22 He is giving Al Pacino vibe here, no?

[mg @mgy_ib]

@DreamsInFrames I was watching ep 11 when Mine says she knows him to not love anyone except Meryem and she was ok with it until Alya showed up
You know this scene now hits different after actually seeing Mer, really dude! what did you find attractive in her and I'm not talking about beauty here

[mg @mgy_ib]

@sewbnv في كتير تحليلات انكتبت عن كلام جيهان هون و كأنو roadmap تبع المسلسل
الموسم الاول.. مواجهة الأهل
الموسم التاني.. مواجهة الماضي
الموسم التالت.. مواجهة النفس
و برأيي الفكرة منطقية و ع هالاساس ممكن التالت يكون لسا اتقل دراميا من التاني

[CocoLoco @DreamsInFrames]

I agree that both Alya and Cihan were exhausted. I also agree that Cihan and Alya didnt really process what happened in that episode where Alya tries to leave with Sadakat's help.

But, did Alya want to leave? Did Cihan feel so bewildered he didn't want to stop her? I don't think so.

To me, Alya's hesitance began with Meryem's appearance. The shadow of Cihan's past she had long feared. Because of it, she suddenly felt less safe in her safe space - in Cihan.

Even though Cihan did his best to calm those fears, the way Alya tells him what they want and what happens dont match, to me, highlighted her fear.

The way she says Sadakat wants to install Meryem in Cihan's room. The way her presence makes her want to avoid the konak.

Meryem is Alya's nightmare in a way. Add to that the fact that Meryem claims she has a son with Cihan. But even then Alya refuses to give up on Cihan.

Its only when Boran says he'll marry Meryem and raise the child, did Alya break because the thought of Alya being the source of Cihan losing out yet again wasnt something she could bear.

In ep 19, when she says you never loved mine, you always loved meryem. You were forced to marry seyda, then me and her face crumples as she says it.

As for Cihan, he's rushing to Alya minutes after telling her he wont forgive her. Because the fear of losing Alya is unlike any other fear of his.

We've seen both Alya and Cihan give into their fears over and over in s2. So much so that even the most basic solution - talking and communicating - didnt occur to either.

Which is why, as horrible as this separation is, is perhaps a good thing. Like they say, sometimes the cure is more painful than the illness.

Maybe by being apart Cihan and Alya will finally understand existing without each other is quite possible. But what kind of life would that be?

For them to truly live, they need to stop surviving and start choosing each other without fear. To trust that love is not a debt to be repaid, nor a burden to be carried alone.

That becoming a family means learning that love is not about sacrifice for the other person, but trust in the person standing beside you.
#CihAl #UzakŞehir

[mg @mgy_ib]

@rosh432_ شردت جيهان اي 😭😭
اما الباقي ما دخلها فيه 😇

[mg @mgy_ib]

@Mgirl170 و جيهان خلصها من فياض بشكل نهائي
بتمنى هيك نطلع خالصين و ما حدا مديون للتاني

[𝘼𝙗𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝 @Abdullah_RQ2]

Bugün günlerden sezon finali ♥️

[#UzakŞehir~#CihAl]

[Uzak Şehir Dizi @Uzaksehirdizi]

Onlarla birlikte ne çok şey yaşadık değil mi? ❤️ #CihAl

#UzakŞehir sezon finaliyle yarın 20.00’de #KanalD’de!

@ayna_yapim @ayyapim @KanalD

[CocoLoco @DreamsInFrames]

Oh and a little blast from the past - last years video edit before the finale came with the caption 'do you believe in miracles' 😸🩷

[mg @mgy_ib]

Yes, we do
#CihAl ❤️

[Uzak Şehir Dizi @Uzaksehirdizi]

Mutlu sonlara inanır mısınız? ❤️ #CihAl

#UzakŞehir sezon finaliyle 1 Haziran Pazartesi 20.00’de #KanalD’de!

@ayna_yapim @ayyapim @KanalD