Stories that stick with me:
May 2002, I visited Arlington Cemetery for the first time & saw a young officer in khakis looking up a grave.
Who was it? A relative? Someone he went to basic with? Was he injured and sent home before his brother?
I’ll never not wonder.
@stephenRB4 😂 I worked with a woman who checked the paper every morning for her obituary because if it was there, she’d know she was a ghost and wouldn’t have to go to work anymore.
@elonmusk Put the A-Team on mental health care improvements. My little sis is lucky - she has a tribe fighting for her. But a lot of people don’t. And either way - the dark forest is dark and vast and incredibly hard to navigate.
My baby sister checked herself into the mental health hospital last week - 20 years after the last time when she was diagnosed with schizophrenia. She’s going through it right now & there’s nothing for me to do but pray. And tell her story.
I spent my last two mornings writing at McBrew in Donegal - had a breakthrough yesterday and kept it going today. Didn’t get as much written on this trip as I’d hoped but taking the win.
So. My lovely writing retreat has been pretty derailed by work. As in, I’ve worked no less than 2 hours a day since beginning my vacation on Saturday.
I’d take a pay decrease over zero time to decompress.
This manuscript is a mess. The weird thing is that I think I’ll be able to print the chapters, shuffle them around, and salvage a massive chunk of it. Weird.
@stephenRB4 I actually do. I grew up in a small town and went to a small Catholic school though. Between my parents, sisters, and I, we’ve stayed connected with a lot of the families. But some of my closest friends are women I’ve known since I was 4 years old.
I’ve decided the sequence of events in my manuscript is wrong. I’ve also managed to make myself keep writing - with promises to fix it on edits. It’s killing me but I’m pretty sure it’s the only way I’ll complete this darn thing.
Not long ago, my sister was kicked off Medicare because her schizophrenia was “under control”. It’s not curable. Regular treatment can control it (-ish). She was reinstated only after a year of hard work. Anyone who takes from people like her should be ashamed.