This life is all about trials. Choose not to hold on to the hurt when unfair things happen in life. Let it go and forgive. Surrender to Allah and let Him deal with it. Allah is the best of planners.
Perhaps the delay in you attaining your wish lies in a benefit which Allah wants for you. So be patient. Do not hasten. And be optimistic. For indeed, what awaits you is far greater than what you wished for, and there is no-one more generous than Allah.
Kelebihan berdoa Hari Arafah telah bermula. Banyakkan berdoa.
Namun, jangan hanya berdoa untuk perkara keduniaan sahaja. Doakan untuk urusan akhirat juga.
Imam Ibn Kathir رَحِمَهُ الله berkata:
وذَمَّ مَنْ لَا يَسْأَلُهُ إِلَّا فِي أَمْرِ دُنْيَاهُ
Heal me on the Day of Arafah, Ya Allah. Heal me so deeply that even my memories stop hurting. Replace the tears in my eyes with light in my heart. Make me forget the words that wounded me and remember only that You are enough for me.
Kau ingat kau ada 100 masalah dalam hidup ni.
Sampai satu hari kau dapat masalah kesihatan... baru kau sedar.
Sebenarnya kau cuma ada satu masalah je.
Jaga kesihatan.
Segala yang lain boleh diselesaikan, tapi kesihatan tak ada, semuanya jadi sia-sia.
Don't let your situation make you sad. It can change anytime, any second. Things can happen unexpectedly. And you don't need to know how and you don't need to worry. Just trust Allah. Everything will fall perfectly into place. It's all written perfectly by your perfect Lord.