Don't call Muslim women who have career goals or high standards "modern muslims". There's nothing modern about women empowerment in Islam. Muslim women are given an extremely high status in islam since the beginning. Khadijah, the prophet Muhammad's wife, was so strong, beautiful, and independent. She took care of an entire business on her own, she rejected men who asked for her because they didn't meet her standards, she chose who she wanted to marry and he was younger than her. So if you think that Muslim women who make decisions for themselves are following some modern version of Islam you're absolutely wrong.