‘Don’t you see that as a denigration of your baby?!’
Porn star Bonnie Blue’s plans to turn her baby shower into a ‘golden shower’ leaves Shelagh Fogarty feeling uncomfortable.
i fully agree! community requires personal sacrifice and doing things we don’t want to sometimes. but the comments are a big example of whataboutism. no one was talking about mentally ill or neurodivergent people. a general statement is usually about…the general population. 🙄
even people from historically marginalized groups can have and utilize privilege. sure you’re gay, but you’re a white man from a well off family. you’re a black woman but you grew up in an upper middle class two parent household. i was never gonna fit in here.
i hate how elitist some black people are. you can’t call yourself pro-black but constantly shit on black americans that didn’t grow up with the privilege of middle class.
Nobody prepares you for the fact that you will go through some of the most heart shattering experiences of your life and are still expected to show up for work. Take care of yourself. Pay your bills. Meet your goals. Just carry on… it’s awful
They're afraid of what it will do to their bodies because men in their lives have made it abundantly clear that they expect a level of perfection that is unobtainable without surgery or superhuman genes. Pinning this on feminine vanity is insultingly reductive.