i don't wanna "win" the argument or feel "right". that's not the point nor my objective. i wanna feel like we've come to an understanding on the issue at hand. i want both of us to walk away feeling heard and understood. it's not a competition
kailan kaya nila maiintindihan na kapag sinasabi ko 'yung nararamdaman ko, ayokong makipag talo, gusto ko lang maintindihan nila ako sa point of view ko.
for me, the purest form of love is consideration. when someone thinks about how things would make u feel. pays attention to detail. holds u in regard when making decisions that could affect u. in any bond, how much they care about u can be found in how much they consider u
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private