I got stranded one weekend and needed to make an urgent transfer, but Zenith Bank decided to misbehave. I called my girlfriend and asked if she could lend me the money, promising to send it back the moment my transaction went through.
She said, โI donโt think I can.โ
I asked why, thinking maybe she had a genuine reason. She replied, โYou know I donโt like taking money out of my savings.โ
I asked again just to be sure I heard her correctly. She repeated the exact same thing.
I simply said, โOkay,โ and ended the call. A few days later, I ended the relationship too.
It wasnโt even about the money. It was realizing I couldnโt count on the person I was planning a future with when I genuinely needed help.
I can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. The constant crave of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. Nobody communicates anymore. Real is Rare.