My brother's celebration of life is tomorrow. I often have dreams where he's the healthy and happy. We had a challenging relationship, but I always wanted him to be the best version of himself. Sometimes it hits like bricks that I'll never see him again. π
I messed that up a bit, but whatever. The past few months have been a challenge, so I'm happy just functioning at a semi normal adult level.
Exiting soon anyway.
My husband and I have a deal that whenever we fight or disagree about something, the first one who notices itβs getting heated needs to speak up and say
βhey just a reminder that weβre best friendsβ
and for the last ten years this has worked remarkably well. It really snaps us out of whatever escalating path we mightβve been on and contextualizes how small the discussion is relative to the big picture.
Anyway happy saturday βοΈ
Sundress season isn't over just yet here in the desert. Very soon, though.
I am looking forward to getting out my cardigans and hoodies for our cooler temps late next week. We might even get rain! Yay! π