My girlfriend once told me something during an argument that stayed with me,
"When I tell you something hurt me, I'm not attacking you. I'm trusting you with a vulnerable part of me. The moment you start defending yourself instead of understanding me, the conversation stops being about the problem and starts being about your ego."
That hit me hard.
songs i dont wanna hear at r&b nights anymore:
can we talk - tevin campbell
when i see you - fantasia
breakin my heart - mint condition
cupid - 112
weak - swv
nice & slow - usher
pony - ginuwine
my favorite part of the bible is when jesus, instead of telling women how to dress, tells men to gouge out their eyes and cut off their hands if theyโre not capable of controlling themselves.