I want to be so comfortable financially that gifting my loved ones becomes second nature.
“You passed”
Dinner’s on me.
“You bought a car?”
Let me buy you fuel
Gifting my loved ones would honestly make me so happy.
Sex is a plus... but I wanna feel beautiful, wanted, loved and appreciated. I want to be in love... freely. I want a mutual understanding that we are on a mission to keep love alive. I want to never go to bed mad. I want conversations, communication. Fun. Unconditional love.
Girl to girl: study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the women before you, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles.
refuse to be a victim of generational curses ❤️
The FAKER you are, the bigger the CROWD...
The REALER you are, the SMALLER your CIRCLE gets...
But every single one of those TRAILBLAZERS will be worth their WEIGHT in GOLD.
QUALITY over QUANTITY, always. Be RARE... Be RUTHLESS!
You’re God’s girl, and eventually you stop seeing life as random. You begin to notice the quiet ways God takes care of you the prayer that gets answered silently, the timing that works out perfectly, the exact conversation you needed at the right moment, the doors that closed and later made sense.
You realize God was present in places you almost overlooked. Not every blessing arrives loudly. Sometimes His love is hidden in ordinary moments a deep breath after a hard week, peace in chaos, strength you didn’t know you had.
Being God’s girl means learning that even in an imperfect life, God is still intentional with you.
May you marry well and marry the right person and be the right person to them.
May you live in your marriage according the plans God had in mind when He thought about marriage.
May your children speak of the beautiful marriage you and partner will have.
May things like, our mommy and daddy genuinely love each other, be heard of from your own and May they be right when they speak on the reasons.
May you not marry a selfish person. May you marry a person who thinks of you before doing things.
My wife or husband will not like this, so I pass.
May it be an all round beautiful home.
in Jesus name
As a Nigerian woman from an average background, your backup plan cannot be marriage. It's like building a house in a water-logged land. It will sink. Fight tooth and nail to make something of yourself. Leave an imaginary man out of it.
This is the season to be still. Don’t overshare, don’t tell everybody your next move, and don’t feel pressured to explain what God is doing in your life. Some things are better kept between you and God. Everybody listening doesn’t genuinely care, and everybody smiling in your face isn’t rooting for you. Stop running to people with every problem and every struggle first… talk to God about it. Move in silence, pray in private, and let the results speak for themselves.
PLEASE add sexual discipline to your prayers when looking for a partner because attraction without discipline can ruin something that was meant to be right.
Todo el mundo se equivoca, comete errores y hace daño a quienes le importan. Y este no es el problema. El problema es no asumir los propios fallos, evitar pedir disculpas y rechazar el cambio. Sin autocrítica y sin disposición a actuar de otra forma no se puede construir ningún vínculo. Y la verdadera valentía reside en atreverte a responsabilizarte de ti sin echar balones fuera. Sin duda
KEEP YOUR PERSONAL LIFE PRIVATE!!
People shouldn’t know every move you’re about to make. They shouldn’t know about every goal you’re trying to accomplish. They shouldn’t know who you’re with or things about them. They shouldn’t know everything you have. Talking too much and showing too much is how you get stuff taken from you. People who know a lot about you can mess up your life, but a person who knows nothing can’t. So stay quiet and enjoy your life in peace. PRIVACY IS POWER.
Of course I can do it alone . I’m the daughter who became her own protector. The one who learned love without receiving it . The girl who cried in silence but still showed up smiling . The woman who healed herself, piece by pierce . Always can and I always will.