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[𝓓𝓸𝓬_𝔃𝓮𝓮 ✧ @doc_zee7]

Me refusing to sleep because i didn't get enough time to feel like human after work

[ٙ @daisutee]

emang sulit sih. tapi beneran deh, hidup kalau udah bisa, “yaudah lah ya, that happens, that’s just how it is, that’s life” rasanya lebih ringan aja.

meskipun diri ini masih suka ngeluh juga sih wkwk. tapi mau gimana lagi, dinikmatin aja lah hidup genre comedy slice of life ini.

[ً @Gerhsemane]

Ini method gw untuk stay sane being adult so far:
1. It is what it is nrimo ing pandum acceptance phase Gusti Allah mboten sare dewe wani iso rak iso kudu iso

[faux || gone/fishing @fauxpasz]

apabila terjadi keadaan darurat angkat tangan dan ucapkan "absolute cinema"

[mifta @miftung]

@danawallet lambat banget

[mifta @miftung]

@prettyestsssz sama kaa😭😭😭

[Tanyarl 💚 @tanyakanrl]

jadi ini kehidupan yang gw lindungi dengan masker di 2020 itu 😔 💚

[amiw @littlemarapi]

"Orang indonesia MBG aja ga tahan, gimana rayuan dajjal"🙏🤣

Bener juga, dan serem, karna dajjal tuh dateng pas bumi lg krisis pangan, orang lg pd putus asa. Plus doi punya power buat nurunin ujan, ngehidupin orang mati, numbuhin taneman. TLDR: yuk Al Kahfi 1-10 nya temen2😇

[Satrio @satrioca]

Times Nur Rochman

[Mikael Dewabrata 📊 @MikaelDewabrata]

They gave out shirts, won the votes, and ignored us for the rest of their term.

This administration is so heartless and vile.

[Yunie ૮ ․ ․ ྀིა @Hyeyunie]

I used to crochet I used to read I used to draw I used to game I used to I used to

[The Biblical Man @Biblicalman]

My wife stopped fighting with me in 2018.

I thought we'd finally figured it out.

No more arguments about the dishes. No more sighing when I forgot something. No more asking me to help with things I should've noticed myself.

Peace.

That's what I called it.

For two years I lived in that silence thinking we'd reached some kind of marital maturity.

Then one night—11 PM, night before Thanksgiving—I found her crying in the kitchen.

Making pie crust from scratch because my mother had made a comment the year before about store-bought being "fine, I guess."

I asked what was wrong.

She looked at me like I was a stranger.

"Nothing."

That's when I realized:

She hadn't stopped fighting because things were better.

She stopped fighting because she stopped believing I would ever change.

The silence wasn't peace.

It was resignation.

She'd built her entire life around my absence…while I was still in the house. Eating the food she cooked. Sleeping in the bed she made. Parenting the kids she was raising.

And I called it partnership because I brought home a paycheck.

Most men don't have a marriage problem.

They have an absence problem.

Their wives stopped asking because asking hurt too much.

So they carry it alone. The meals. The schedules. The mental load. The holidays.

And we sit on the couch checking our phones thinking "at least we're not fighting anymore."

Brother, fighting would be better.

Anger means she still believes you could change.

Silence means she made peace with the fact that you won't.

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving.

Your wife is going to wake up before you. Start cooking while you sleep. Manage the chaos while you watch the parade. Clean up while you digest.

Unless you don't let her.

I wrote the protocol for coming home to a marriage you've been absent from.

The 5 stages of wifely resignation.
Why "I'll do better" doesn't work anymore.
The 30-day silent rebuilding system.
The conversation she needs to hear.

It's called "When She Stopped Asking."

Link below if you want it.

But whether you buy it or not—wake up first tomorrow.

[mifta @miftung]

@ominscient @bakuldimsum_ gabisa wkwk