nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i'm a bad person. i have my ways and i have my days, but i'm solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way.
Maturing is realizing they never burned witches. They burned midwives, healers, herbalists, and knowledgeable women.
Women who understood medicine, nature, and their own autonomy. Women whose knowledge threatened patriarchal control. The "witch hunts" were never about magic, they were about silencing women who couldn't be controlled.
Fun fact:
If you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated, or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes for friendships too
For a RELATIONSHIP to really work, you gotta understand this: You and your partner are TWO different people, with two different pasts, trying to build ONE future. You didn't grow up the same, you won't always think the same, and that's okay. What matters is HOW you handle it. Communicate without turning everything into an argument. Listen even when you're frustrated. Stop keeping score and start choosing growth. Because every disagreement shouldn't create distance. It should build understanding
I DO NOT want self-driving cars.
I DO NOT want humanoid robots.
I DO NOT want Al in every app I use.
I want clean water.
I want a stable climate.
I want a habitable planet.
Woman to woman: You might not realize it, but we're part of the first generation of women with the freedom to build lives on our own terms emotionally, financially, and independently, without needing a husband or children to define us. This level of autonomy is something many of our grandmothers and great-grandmothers never had access to. It's not just progress, it's power. Celebrate it. Own it. You are living a life they only dreamed could be possible.
honestly, we can't date casually. can't casually have sex. there's nothing casual about being in my space. i'm a real lover. there's nothing casual about my intimacy, nothing casual about my heart. we either in love or nothing
A ngga ain’t never hated it over here 😂 He hated the RULES & REGULATIONS. You not gone play with me. You not gone talk to me crazy. I’m not sharing you. I’m not shrinking myself to make you feel bigger. If you can’t handle a strong woman, go be with a weak one. RESPECTFULLY 🫶🏽
If someone asked me, "how do you want to be loved?" I might answer, "with gifts, flowers, candle or love letters."
But if they asked me on a deeper level, I would say I want to be loved in a way that feels safe. The kind of love where I don't have to overthink if it's real or temporary. I want consistency, someone who stays not just when it's easy or exciting, but even on quiet, ordinary days. I want to be understood without always having to explain every piece of myself. Someone who listens not just to reply, but to truly understand.
I want a love that chooses me every day, not only when it's convenient, but especially when it's hard. A love that doesn't walk away at the first sign of difficulty, but instead learns, grows, and stays. I want to be loved gently, honestly, and intentionally.
Not just through words, but through actions, every single day.
Never beg for love. Never beg for romance. Never beg for attention. Never beg for affection. Never beg for respect. Never beg for reciprocity. Never beg for compliments. Never beg for quality time. Never beg for intimacy. Never beg for commitment. Never beg for loyalty.
not to alarm anyone... but if we lose our coral reefs it also means losing the ocean’s food chain, and our oxygen cycle, food supplies, starts a societal collapse, and then our earth is fucked for real...
Forever the kind of girl that gets turned off sexually anytime I’ve been neglected emotionally, because my body will not crave what my heart can't trust 🤎