This is the reason so many men self sabotage when they do find a woman who mirrors healthy relational patterns and open and honest communication. When somebody has never had something healthy modelled to them, they’ll view everything through the lens of toxicity that they’ve known. A woman wanting to genuinely talk things through for resolve, will simply be seen as ‘nagging’ or ‘refusing to move on’.
Hubungan yang sehat sebenarnya nggak perlu selalu dipusingkan dengan berbagai teori: love language, feminine/masculine energy, attachment style, inner child, dan sebagainya.
Semua itu bisa membantu memahami hubungan, tapi ada satu hal yang jauh lebih fundamental:
Be kind to each other. Don’t be assholes.
Sesederhana itu.
Gak semua cowok punya pola pikir kaya begitu. Tapi kalo masih nganggap cari uang berarti bebas dari urusan rumah, masalahnya bukan capeknya, tapi mindset-nya.
Buat gue pernikahan itu kerja sama, bukan titip semua beban ke pasangan.
After a certain age, your parents slowly become your children. They ask simple questions, repeat stories, and depend on your patience the way you once depended on theirs. Very few understand this role reversal.What looks like innocence or inconvenience is really time coming full circle. Don't correct them harshly. Don't rush them. Care for them the way they once protected you. This is not a burden. It is repayment.
An Arabic proverb says; “Keep your house clean like you're expecting guests.Keep your heart clean like you're expecting death.” This hits deep, a reminder we often forget.
lagi delay nunggu pesawat, samping gw bapak ngobrol sama istrinya
"bapak sebel ga kalo delay?"
"yang betah ya.."
"ngapain sebel"
"kan bisa sambil ngobrol sama kamu.."
anjay gurinjay terkanjay kanjay!!
bahagia banget gw dengernya
gw iri iri iri..
@kevinpramudya_ ya Allah, mas Kevvvv sedih banget..udah follow dari lama dan suka ikutin cerita nya + foto foto keren nya..sukses selalu, mas dimana pun
saya jual rumah pribadi di Bintaro sektor 2 (SHM) – cocok untuk investasi jangka panjang
🏡 LT 480 / LB 200
📍 Lokasi strategis
🗓 sedang tersewa s/d Mei 2028, uang sewa akan dioper ke pembeli
💰 Harga : Rp 7.5 M (nego sampai jadi)
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Absennya figur bapak bikin kita kesulitan set boundaries saat dewasa.
Absennya figur ibu menentukan cara kita menilai, mencintai, dan memaafkan diri sendiri seumur hidup.
Funny how we pay for therapy to heal from the damage someone else caused—just to forgive their ignorance.
Quoting what Jay Shetty said,
"The greatest act of love is loving someone so much, that they learn to love themselves"
It happened pada seseorang dengan anxious atau avoidant attachment dalam membangun secure attachment, atas ruang aman 'act of love' pasangannya.
Kurma tu dah tinggal dimakan aja ga usah dicampur apa2.
Serat fiber tinggi.
Trus tinggi kalori, tapi glikemik index rendah. Jadi cocok buat sumber energi dalam waktu lama
Dalam 1 kurma average mengandung 50-70 kcal
Makan 3 udah 210 kcal.
Jos kali bukan
Berita buruk termasuk mega korupsi di Indonesia bagi kita rakyat udah kayak minum obat. Sehari 3 kali.
BANGSAT BANGSAAAATTTT!!
Gini amat nasib kita, saaaatttt...!
Ratusan triliun udah kayak nggak ada artinya, Saaattt...!!
Kitorang pergi Bromo bukan pada right season, tapi banyak sangat benda yang kitorang dapat belajar.
I kat airport ni, flight delay cambiasa. So I macam ada sedikit kerajinan nak share the random itinerary yang kitorang experience sebelum I focus back to my busy schedule. Yuk!