According to researchers who studied couples for over 50 years, the #1 factor that can stress or even destroy relationships is the endless, intrusive presence of researchers.
Everyone wants the gist. But the gist is what's left after someone else decided what mattered.
Their priorities aren't yours. Their filters aren't yours.
When you operate on summaries, you're thinking
with someone else's brain.
“I think of a hero as someone who understands the degree of responsibility that comes with his freedom.”
— Bob Dylan
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