The way random people and friends will treat you will be different from the way your partner who loves you will treat you.
You fii dey smoke make your partner tell you to stop but people fii dey tell you say na your life, live am. Na you go decide who you go listen to
You fii dey dress naked make your partner tell you to change but people fii dey admire you and dey encourage you on body positivity. Na you go decide which one you go follow