Also no I don't think people should just come out and say it, I only did when people asked when I was gonna have another baby and I was trying because yes that is something people ask. Constantly and it can be upsetting.
My hard launch is people who have never tried for a baby thinking it's just doing it every night when in reality you can only get pregnant 3 days out of the month and if you properly track your cycle (if you are regular) then you know roughly when that is.
GET YOUR SMEAR TEST DONE!! As someone who watched their own mother slowly die from cervical cancer because she missed one appointment please get it done! She didn't go peacefully she was in severe pain for 2 years straight until she died! She was only 34!!!