I pulled back from a lot of people and realized the peace wasnโt a coincidence.I used to be the friend who poured into everybody, showed up for everybody, encouraged everybodyโฆ until I noticed that when I needed somebody, the room got real empty. Now? Iโm matching energy. Iโm honoring my capacity. Iโm choosing people who choose me back.
Distance taught me who was in my life for love and who was there for convenience.
lowkey wanna fall in love but monday to friday is work, saturday is laundry, sunday is mental prep for monday. the butterflies in my stomach is actually decomposing
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
I spent years overgiving in friendships & relationships. I was always the one checking in, showing love, making sure everybody was good & I forgot about me. Now I just want to be alone and focus on myself. Iโm learning to pour into me the way I used to pour into everybody else.