Many people confuse a strong feeling of attachment to someone with having a deep connection. But when I truly have a deep connection with someone, my only hope is that my presence helps them remember they are free.
Adult friendships require grace
Life is happening to your friends, just as its happening to you. No point being upset when they don't check on you or they miss important happenings in your life.
Instead graciously fill them in
One day, you also will need grace extended to you๐
I really appreciate when ppl tell me I have a calming presence. It warms my heart! But it was years of chaos and emotional turbulence that forced me to find solace in grounding practices. Grateful for everything, even the violence that made me this gentle.