It's telling that a contingent of Nigerian men has decided that the worst thing you can be is a man who does thoughtful gestures for women.
You can tweet about beating women, and these lot will overlook it, but if you dare plan a romantic date, they will call for your hanging.
One thing I know is that, people will always advise you to keep tolerating bullshit once family is involved, I don’t buy it. I came alone, I am definitely going alone.