Baru kuliah di umur 25+ itu normal, baru lulus kuliah di umur 25+ itu juga normal, belum kerja atau nganggur di umur 25+ normal, belum menikah umur 25+ itu normal. Semua normal. Yang gak normal cuma mulut tetangga aja. Jalanin hidup ini sesantai mungkin. Umur hanyalah angka.
you can never control someone liking you, texting you back or being with you in any capacity but what you can do is maintain hygiene, shower twice a day, go for a run, study, meet friends, spend time with your family and pray to the almighty
alah telek aku nganggur sambil belajar, upgrade skill, nambah porto, freelance, bahkan kerja yg ga nyambung sm bidang itu buat nyari uang sambil ttp upgrade juga semua recruiter pada skeptis. org mau cari makan aja dicurigain macem2 heran gw
"Kamu emangnya LGBT ya kok sering banget membela LGBT?"
Nggak, ngapain gw buang2 energi buat ngehate org2 LGBT? mending ngehate pemrentah lah, ngedampak banget ke kehidupan kita.
msh kepikiran tiba" banget diucapin sis malem" mentang" bulan juni hahaha
love-hate relationship with my lil sis, but i'm grateful that she accepts me 🥹🙂↔️
the thing about really committing yourself to healing, unlearning dysfunctional habits, and relearning how to communicate and regulate and be a truly safe person is that you are going up against a huge percentage of people who are NOT doing that work at all and that is not easy.
your gojek driver might be queer, your teacher might be queer, your best friend might be queer, and your nail artist might absolutely be queer. queer people are everywhere, just living their lives like everyone else.
having shitty parents really ruins your whole youth and your mental health for a lifetime and puts you at a huge disadvantages academically, socially and professionally and people just expect you to get over it
almost everyone wants to solve it. they give you reasons, advice, no one is comfortable with just, being there. i promise you’re not going to say anything to fix it. they need you to hug them or sit with them or distract them. be a friend. but ppl seem to really struggle w that