The only reason some of you cheat is because you only care about yourself. You have low self esteem. It boost you EGO in a way and make you feel better about yourself.
You have shallow personalities as well complex psychological insecurity issues. 🚶♀️
He is having his first meal of the day by 12:48 pm today. It is not always like this.
He woke up and said he wants to use the toilet. I took him there, but he didn’t poo at all.
I had to bath him and this whole exercise takes a lot of time.
This used to be a very strong man, respected at faults road Aba because of his ability to maintain standards against all odds, integrity and discipline.
Look at him now. Fragile. At the mercy of a daughter and a son who make sure his last days are well spent.
LIFE IS FRAGILE. RAISE KIDS WITH DISCIPLINE. E GET WHY. ALL THESE GENTLE PARENTING ARE NOT HELPING OOOOOO.
One time, I had 22,000 naira in my account. This friend calls me from abuja that his car is with the mechanic and he needs 25,000 to fix it.
I sent him 20,000 with prayers that he would get the rest somewhere.
A few minutes later, he called me and said "Thank you, i would have had to touch the money in my dollar account and i didnt want to do that"
Wow.
He had a dollar account with money and all i had was my Naira account...
I learnt my lesson that day
It’s a weird feeling when you’re always there for people, but when it’s your turn to need help, everyone suddenly disappears.
So sometimes, the lesson isn’t “be less kind,” it’s “be more selective.”
Especially in critical sectors like healthcare, where empathy, and compassion should be primary considerations before hiring nurses or any other staff, as these qualities directly impact patient care, trust, and overall outcomes. It’s more than just skill, it’s humanity.
The sooner Nigerian employers begin to place equal value on soft skills as much as technical and hard skills, the more functional, productive, and sustainable the workforce and work environment will become.
My parents are still here, but I’m grieving the version of them that was my anchor. The transition from being the child who is "looked after" to becoming the person who "looks after" the parent.