yes bro letâs address the inherent contradiction in expecting others to recognize ur humanity emotions & vulnerabilities while simultaneously dismissing the humanity & emotional experiences of ur own fandom empathy can't be selectively applied only when uâre the one asking for it
"move on, it's been long, you're ruining the mood talking about it" hell yea tell women to shut up when they're being uncomfortable for you, how dare they share their feeling and thoughts
me revuelve el estomago ver como todas olvidan tan rĂĄpido, como minimizan todo lo que hacen los hombres y como comparten y adoran sus fotos de nuevo sin darse cuenta que ellos no las defenderĂan de un abusador, que bien por las que pueden olvidarlo tan rĂĄpido
This is the impact weâre talking about: BTSâ public support is now being used by some fans to minimize a documented pattern of violence, defend CB & demand a collab. In trying to shield BTS from accountability, theyâre giving an abuser even more legitimacy.
Personally, I donât have any hope. Iâve already accepted I have to re-interpret my connection to them, their art, & their proposed connection, respect, & understanding of their fans. Iâve accepted that itâll likely never be the same as it was. It is what it is.
i lowk hate how people mischaracterise jin as the dad jokes silly guy and only talk about super tuna. there's so much depth into his artistry that people just don't talk about.