(Miriam’s Version)

Cómo, cuándo y dónde. Enfermera.

[(Miriam’s Version) @mipecre]

Aprendí a no creerme todo lo que la gente dice. Mis únicas pasiones sin reservas han sido los libros y la música. Y, tal vez como lógica consecuencia de todo ello, me fui convirtiendo en una persona solitaria…"
Haruki Murakami

[Ministerio de Igualdad @IgualdadGob]

‼️ Ningún maltratador puede ser un buen padre.

🟣 España contra la violencia vicaria.

#ViolenciaVicaria

[BRIOCHE @BrioEnfurecida]

Chavales de España, este domingo la final hay que verla con vuestra familia, con amigos…vividla. Y si no tenéis a nadie, luego salís a la calle. Que dentro de 20 años vuestro recuerdo no sea ver como la reacciona una persona de 40 años, por favor. Vivid vosotros.

[Ministerio de Igualdad @IgualdadGob]

🗣️ “La violencia online no es una violencia de segunda clase o de menor calado, todo lo contrario. Es de la misma naturaleza que el resto de las violencias machistas, se ejerce a nivel global y no cesa, es 365 días, 24 horas”.

📍La ministra @_AnaRedondo_ en @CursosVeranoUCM

[Cementerio De Libros @Cementedelibros]

- ¿Es guapa?
- Se le notan los libros que ha leído.

[Pablo Alcalde @HProductiva]

Cómo el cine te dice visualmente que dos personajes no están destinados a terminar juntos

[ola 𑣿 @purplelacebras]

her trying to run away from him when he’s chasing her and trying to keep her but the second he stops putting in an effort she turns around and comes back to him……… madison beer ur mind is truly amazing there is so much symbolism in the mv

[nicole @r0ckalet4]

no quiero regresar contigo, quiero regresar a ese día en el sillón de tu casa donde veíamos esa serie q nunca terminamos

[𝐀𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐝𝐧𝐞 @beautysoulart]

💙🦋✨️

[Libriscent @libriscent]

You are going to hurt the person you love.

Not once.

Not twice.

But over and over, in small ways and big ways, simply because you are human. You will misunderstand them. You will trigger their wounds. You will fail to meet them in the moment they needed you most. And they will do the same to you. The real question is not if you will hurt each other. The question is: Will the hurt you cause build intimacy or will it slowly destroy it?

Every couple hurts each other. This is not a sign that the relationship is failing. It is not proof that love is gone. It is not even a red flag that you are doing something wrong. It is simply the inevitable result of two imperfect humans trying to share a life, a home, and a heart. Hurt is not the problem. The problem is that most couples never learn how to do it well.

The truth is that you cannot love someone deeply without eventually touching their wounds. You cannot be fully known without parts of you colliding with parts of them. And you cannot grow together without creating discomfort in one another along the way. The goal is not to avoid hurting each other. The goal is to learn how to do it in a way that builds trust instead of breaking it, deepens intimacy instead of destroying it, and opens connection instead of closing it.

Most people are terrified of this idea because we are taught to see hurt as failure. We spend our lives trying to protect each other from pain. We apologize quickly. We downplay our feelings. We hide the truth. We pretend we are fine when we are not. But love that never risks hurt is not intimacy. It is politeness. And politeness is not enough to sustain a real relationship.

Here is what the problem usually looks like:

First, one of you holds back. You notice something that bothers you but you keep it inside because you do not want to start a fight. You bite your tongue, smile, and move on. But the resentment builds quietly beneath the surface until one day it explodes in a way that is far more hurtful than if you had spoken honestly in the beginning.

Then, you avoid telling the truth about how something made you feel because you are afraid they will take it personally. You think you are protecting them, but what you are really doing is creating a version of the relationship where parts of you must stay hidden to keep the peace. And a love that requires you to hide yourself is a love that will slowly suffocate you.

Finally, when hurt does happen, you handle it carelessly. You deliver truth like a weapon instead of an invitation. You use your pain as ammunition. You point it like a finger instead of offering it like a hand. The result is predictable: they get defensive, you get louder, both of you feel misunderstood, and the cycle repeats. The hurt multiplies because neither of you knows how to do anything else with it.

But what if hurting each other could be a path to closeness instead of a reason to disconnect? What if the very moments that sting the most could also become the ones that shape the deepest intimacy? That is possible when you learn how to do it well.

Here is what that looks like in practice:

It begins with intention. You speak the truth not to wound but to reveal. Instead of saying, “You are selfish,” you say, “When that happened, I felt like my needs didn’t matter.” Instead of saying, “You are so cold,” you say, “I feel lonely when you turn away.” You deliver the truth in a way that exposes your inner experience rather than attacks their character. That difference changes everything.

Because the truth is this: you will hurt each other. But if you can learn to do it with honesty, tenderness, and love, you will discover something extraordinary. The moments that once felt like endings can become the very moments that make your relationship stronger than it has ever been.

[𝗄𝖺𝗄𝗁𝗈𝗓𝖺 @simphiweyinkoc_]

The moment you start hesitating to text a man because you’re scared of seeming needy, that’s your sign it’s not a safe space for you emotionally.

[bauldefrases @suspirxsalaire]

Devuélveme aquella parte de mí que te llevaste cuando decidiste que yo no era para ti.

[(Miriam’s Version) @mipecre]

https://t.co/WvOhp2PcnG

[👄 @gvrrci]

Para mi todo se resuelve alejándome, pero ojalá algún día alguien con mucho amor & paciencia me enseñe a quedarme

[𝑷𝒖𝒏𝒌 𝒚 𝒄𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒊 @punk_y_cursi]

Esto después de aprender a controlar mi lujuria y entender que no todo contacto humano tiene que terminar en sexo.