You must live with the conviction that Allah loves you, wants to forgive you, doesn't desire hardship for you, intends ease for you, will compensate you with better, gives you grief to mature you, isolates you to enjoy your company alone & place trials to humble you. Be patient.
There's an ayat in Quran that explicitly states men are responsible for wives financially, there's no ayat in the Quran that says women are responsible for every household chore. The Prophet himself used to take care of his homely chores without bothering wives