Personally, I think we should be okay with having a great conversation with a stranger and leaving it at that; exchanging contacts isn’t exactly necessary. It’s one of the beautiful things of life to remember a good conversation with a random person and move on
@RealCheeta@yabaleftonline Who told u she hasn’t?? Shes done the right thing by saying it publicly because this man will forever be a danger to the public. There is also a video of him in handcuffs so I assume the authorities are involved
Go and buy proper spray
Stop going out at night
Stop inviting women you don't know to your house
Stop being entitled to women's cooking skills
Stop hurting women and expecting grace in return
Dress properly, no revealing clothes.
You are not African or West Indian like the people back home. This staunch denial of the black British identity — that we all know isn’t monolithic so there’s no need for pedantry — is just reflective of this need to overcompensate because of displacement.
Not that I’ve personally taken ‘relationship advice from Oloni’ but oh I absolutely want to take advice from someone who has the strength to lock off an engagement when they see the man is not fit for purpose. It takes a different kind of courage and SELF LOVE to do that.
In one breath, men don’t want gold diggers who’ll contribute nothing financially and in another breath, they also don’t want educated and independent women.
Misogyny is so contradictory, it’s almost a brain rot.