@americanperidot Honestly I'm the same way. There were posts everywhere of my son and no one asked me. MIL posted at least 5 videos of my boy on her tiktok (not even private account) and anytime I mentioned to her that he is my son she said she wouldn't delete.
I forget that kids pick up anything you say. Trying to get a Drs appointment an no one understands that I'm just trying to get my seizures to calm down. Nurse pissed me off so I hung up, threw my phone on my bed, and called her a bitch. And then do did my son.