It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
I think the most attractive thing in a man is when he admits he has feelings for you, and makes it clear he wants you. Stop with this nonchalant bullshit.
My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.
Nung bata bata tayo I thought 30 is old, and boring. But now that I entered my 30’s I realized… its so beautiful?? Kalma, pero hindi kampante. Marunong na, pero natututo pa. Baliw pa rin, pero hindi na tanga.
Next year, you will meet the happiest version of yourself and it will be worth it. May you find yourself being genuinely happy after the sacrifices that you have given & poured into your everyday life and may you have the courage to recover from things that are used to hurt you.
for anything that isn’t for me to not find me and for things that are for me to locate me. if anything that isn’t mine does find me, may it not cause me any harm when i release it and may i have enough room to accept what’s mine without doubt or anxiety.
she’s a 10, but she rewatches the same shows and movies over and over again because she loves familiarity and can’t handle the anxiety that comes with not knowing