Life is a game of poker.
Sometimes you're dealt a winning hand.
Sometimes nothing but garbage.
You don't get to choose your cards.
But you do get to choose how you play them.
And when your hand is absolute crap?
Keep a straight face.
Nobody at the table needs to know.
You don't have to expose everyone who has treated you badly.
You don't have to convince the entire room.
You don't have to win an argument about someone's character.
@Jenny_1884 I still listen to music from the '60s, '70s, and '80s pretty regularly. But your question just made me realize I haven't listened to ABBA in ages!
Every time a new AI model comes out, everyone rushes to use it. Buying a Ferrari is your choice. But don't complain about the fuel costs when you're just driving to the corner store. After decades of working in systems engineering, designing systems and allocating resources, I find this mentality utterly baffling. Whatever happened to using the right tool for the job?
@NikoleCallihan Japan has a different publishing system. Literary agents are rare here, so editors largely play that gatekeeping role. But I see a similar problem: in trying to select books they believe will sell, aren't they also narrowing the range of books that ever get a chance to sell?
I wrote a short story about a woman who takes a day off work.
Nothing happens.
Nothing changes.
Nobody learns anything.
And for some reason, I called it "AVOCADO."
Make of that what you will:
https://t.co/G3yA7s4qfg
Interestingly, this isn't entirely unique to Japan. In South Korea, autumn is also traditionally associated with reading. And in China, autumn has long been celebrated in poetry, often evoking the moon, nostalgia, and the passage of time. Perhaps what we think of as a uniquely Japanese appreciation of autumn is actually part of a much broader East Asian cultural tradition.
Defiance is not always a sign of an independent mind. A person's true strength is revealed in how they treat those weaker than themselves—and those stronger.