The open vs monogamy discourse is back yet again, and I am so bored of gays not realising that there is no right or wrong way to go about relationship dynamics. There is no wrong answer, as relationships are so personable to each of us??
@ratrocks222240@pukeyboii Idk man, I just find it stupid that we’re wasting our time being on other people’s asses about their choices. We can have our opinions about them, however, it’s like not our business?
straight women benefit from het privilege because they're straight. gay men benefit from male privilege because they're men. this isn't a hard concept to grasp.
It’s very much a Michigan thing to be at an event where some people are wearing designer drip and other people are in jeans, sneaks and hoodies and nobody cares and we’re all just vibing
all my life, the “hate the sin, not the sinner”, “i don’t judge them” rhetoric about gay men and queer people ALWAYS emanated from cis het women. and to me, that’s one of the most violent experiences of being a queer person. you can’t “tolerate” me and hate me at the same time.