@Hestia_Esq I do lean toward women keeping some separate assets because they often lose in the parent/work/earning future equation. I think the fair thing here is agreeing she keeps her pre-marraige equity in the event of a split
@fractaIthoughts How old are your kids? I stopped cooking when they were in elementary school bc it's just not worth it. I keep prepared things and they can put them together themselves. Then you make yourself whatever you want
@cowgirlpsyop If they're talking and can interact and stuff, I think it's probably developmentally bad to have then rear facing too long. But I did make my kids sit in the back until they just refused to do it anymore.
@HonorAndDaring I have a 16 y/o son and the dads they know with money are entrepreneurial or in real estate or something that doesn't appear to need a degree so they don't see the point
@DianaNazaroff@KeenanPeachy This may have been your family, but my grandpa, grandma and his sisters all went to college (40s) and worked. My ggrandma had a business (widow.) Not a lot of staying home in my line. My other grandma did the finances for apartments/buildings.
@KeenanPeachy For the 1999โ2000 academic year, in-state tuition and mandatory fees at XXX totaled $2,135 for California residents, while out-of-state tuition and fees amounted to $9,515
@KeenanPeachy I didn't fact check this, but someone told me the school I went to in CA if $40,000/yr now. !!! Tuition was like $3000 (checked, it's $15,000 in state, $37,000 out of state.)
@lisavsworld I had two college boyfriends: one dated his now-wife for 7 yrs and the other never married. (I married at 26 but my husband is real wife-guy.)