Hi. Here with a little reminder that good sex is allowed to matter. And frankly, if your partner is so great, why aren't the attuning to you in this area?
Friendly reminder, boundaries are focused on you. Your actions, your choices. Telling others what they can/cannot do is a control tactic.
For example: "my boundary is that you can't surf with men" -- control tactic.
@NatalieZed Oh Natalie. I am so sorry. I cannot even figure out the right thing to say about how special Lydia was. I've missed her regularly and know that it was a treat to love and fight with her when I did.
Ever get stuck in not really knowing what to do with a hottie you want to play with? Or be uncertain about how to bring your desires to life? I'm talking about this and more for CUFF. Come!
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Something that's always come pretty easy to me is not really being a jealous partner, but y'all it's 10:22 PM and my partner just made himself a post-sex ice coffee.
And he'll be asleep by 11pm
โOur job is to incentivize the p rn industry to only sell legitimate productโ โ at the end of the day thatโs what EVERYONE wants! And sex workers know the ins & outs of HOW to do that! Like repeatedly asking for age verification, etc. #MoneyShotNetflix#FlyDuoWatchParty
As long as you know how to regulate yourself and/or regulate nervous systems with others, then do you
Itโs more than reasonable & healthy for your brain to check out sometimes esp if life systemically sucks
Do you know how to get back to the present when you need to/want to?
The point of somatic/mindfulness/trauma work is NOT to be present all the time
Ew no.
The point is so you have options. So your body isnโt in a constantly dissociating or constantly being flooded in stress hormones, which has negative health effects
If you're Canadian and looking for some homegrown talent, check out @lunamatatas for consultations OR workshops (another fantastic date night idea!)
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It's 5pm on #ValentinesDay Did you space on a gift? Here's a last-minute idea that doesn't suck.
Hire a sex educator for a guided sex toy shopping date.
From the pleasure of your living room, you & your sweeties can relax while working with a personalized shopper!