people lack accountability, then be like "you could've just talked to me". no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because I didn't want to fix.
@Iamivy05 i saw a quote that said, “if you don’t clear your misunderstandings in time, they become the reason for permanent distance." and that’s realest shit ever.
@Iamivy05 I agree but people don’t take accountability enough tho so communicating seems so unnecessary these days. They either ignore or deny or move weird after you communicate your feelings to them.
@Iamivy05 What happens when one party doesn't wanna clear up the misunderstandings though? They just become quiet and move on without any clarity? How would one deal with that type of behavior and disrespect when only one party is trying their hardest but not met halfway🤔?
@Iamivy05 Unresolved misunderstandings really do turn into walls—been there. Clearing the air early is tough but saves relationships. Thanks for the wisdom! 💡 #RealTalk
no one can ever gaslight me into thinking im a bad person..i have my ways & i have my days, but im solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way
i saw a quote that said, “if you don’t clear your misunderstandings in time, they become the reason for permanent distance." and that’s realest shit ever.
They hate your standards because they can't meet them. You demand honesty. Loyalty. Depth. That's threatening to people who survive on manipulation, shortcuts, and surface charm. You're not difficult, they're just unqualified.
When something is truly right for you, it will feel natural, flow effortlessly, resonate with you, sync with you, energize you, soothe your nervous system, calm you down, and make you feel at ease and right at home, like it's supposed to happen. That's how you know.