✨Shirley Lougin

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA Underline 'my friends says I deserve my place back', it's a loaded statement #TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA You got your results and you never went for couples therapy, his living with a lot of things, he might think you knew and kept it from him, seek medical and emotional therapy, plus Lenacapavir has hit the shores#TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA Yes I have attended a few, but it's where my husband worked and I was His plus one, in one he was a groomsmen, at that institution they marry each other, mybe it's because it's a hospital

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA @CalvinFallo Shame his going through a lot, grieving his mother and father, just be there for him and support whatever decision he takes and reassuring him that whatever he decides won't change his place in your heart and his position in the family #blindspot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@YGqwaru30060 @mbhele_senziwe @joy_zelda She might be a fiancé for ever, this is not a monogamous marriage but a polygamous one, your marriage is depend on concent by the other wives and by the court, and by all means iam just shedding a light on polygamy

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@premium_xh Makhwela

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@mbhele_senziwe @joy_zelda financially capable of taking another wife

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@mbhele_senziwe @joy_zelda According to customary law she's just a girlfriend , Mseleku needs to make an application at court to marry her, if the wives never gave a written consent that lobola if it happened it's null and void, even if they agreed Musa must prove to the court that he is

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@Trixx_Ray is financially capable of taking another wife, mybe that's where Thobile fitures

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@Trixx_Ray She's not gonna benefit much if the wives don't agree on her to be married, Mseleku needs to make an application at court to marry her, if the wives never gave a written consent that lobola if I happened it's null and void, even if they agreed Musa must prove to the court that he

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA Mara this is chaos, take your kids back to therepy, you should have gone back to the therapist and asked for their guidance, lies, deceit are never a protection but a self fulfilling act #TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA You fell in love, we play until the situation is not playful anymore, your looking for your previous relationship on the 58 old, why do you feel he reminds of your father, and in a negative manner #TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA She needs someone or something to remind her of herself, it's time you involve family, mybe they can pull her out of the dark place she's in, gaabo motho go thebe phatswa#TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA Falling in love is about how the other person makes you feel, and the comfort that comes with it, just be honest with your ex, perhaps see the child somewhere for now till your sure about the new relationship #TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA @CredoVDaniels Your still grieving, the wound is still fresh and it's normal to want to revenge,but it's not gonna take the pain away, take time to heal, condolences #TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA Are you being forced into this new lifestyle, her duties don't fall off just because she has chosen a new lifestyle, re apeya supper babang even when we stop eating in the afternoon, we cook that pap that we don't eat, communicate with her#TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA Kante lona Le nyadisa yang, akere after the lobola negotiations you are supposed to be handed over to the inlaws, how they welcome you it's on them, they can make a small or big celebration of welcoming of their makoti,#TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@tboseZA A man that genuinely loves you will never ask you such, he will want to protect you, build you, not put you in a position of compromising yourself and risking your freedom for him, walk away, today is this, tomorrow it's something else #TheBlindSpot

[✨Shirley Lougin @misslougin]

@MeliM1616 @ThatoRams5 @MDNnewss It's called an investigation, that's why he says his findings