If you keep waiting for your friends to come to you, then your friends will end up feeling neglected and eventually they'll move on to people who can meet their efforts halfway - and they're not in the wrong for doing so. Everyone needs some reassurance from time to time.
peak female experiences :
1. realizing u can wear whatever you want
2. becoming besties with your sister
3. friendships start turning 10+ years old
4. accepting your body
5. finally understanding your mother
6. de-centering men
7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love