I remember crashing out over a man before. I lost sleep. I lost weight. I lost money. I lost friends. I lost family. I lost hair. I lost ambition. I lost my appetite. I lost my spark. I lost my best years. I lost my mind. That’s why I don’t judge no woman struggling in a toxic relationship because I never thought that could be me until it was. Life will humble you so quick.
This girl said, “When I lost my spark nobody noticed, because I was still showing up for others. The only way I regained my spark was by isolating myself and limiting how I gave out my resources. People noticed that though.” And that’s really how it be
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.