The culture & social contagion has also convinced women that wisdom is more valued from strangers and the internet than your elders & family.
The bonds of natural family & older generations are broken
The Lindsay Clancy case shows how feminism has broken society on so many levels, but here is what no one is talking about. All of these moms are overwhelmed and frustrated, can’t afford daycare, the kids dominate their life and they “lose their identity because they had kids,” but before feminism mom’s had tons of help. Grandma was at home, your sister was at home with her kids, and all the moms on the block with their kids, so the Mom’s had help because they would get together. It gave them camaraderie, belonging, community, and allowed them to keep their identity. This is where “it takes a village comes from.” but with so many Mom’s working, that culture is gone. You don’t have your aunt to help, your neighbor to help, all the other moms to hang out with. So moms are just alone and because of that they feel like they lose their identity.
Feminism has taken that from you.
The Lindsay Clancy case shows how feminism has broken society on so many levels, but here is what no one is talking about. All of these moms are overwhelmed and frustrated, can’t afford daycare, the kids dominate their life and they “lose their identity because they had kids,” but before feminism mom’s had tons of help. Grandma was at home, your sister was at home with her kids, and all the moms on the block with their kids, so the Mom’s had help because they would get together. It gave them camaraderie, belonging, community, and allowed them to keep their identity. This is where “it takes a village comes from.” but with so many Mom’s working, that culture is gone. You don’t have your aunt to help, your neighbor to help, all the other moms to hang out with. So moms are just alone and because of that they feel like they lose their identity.
Feminism has taken that from you.
This is very personal for me to share.
My biological mother was a stripper working at a club in downtown Seattle. My biological father was one of her clients. She became pregnant with me while struggling with addiction and used drugs throughout her pregnancy. When I was born, I was immediately taken to the ICU to detox and was eventually placed for adoption.
By God’s grace, I was adopted by two wonderful parents who loved me deeply. I was four months old when they picked me up from the orphanage, and they are the only parents I’ve ever known. I never grew up feeling like something was missing. I never felt some deep longing to find my biological parents. I had a mom and dad who loved me, cared for me, sacrificed for me, and gave me a wonderful home.
Years later, after I got married and we had our first child, my wife encouraged me to learn more about my biological history. If for no other reason, she thought it might be good for the sake of our daughter to know whether there was anything medically or genetically significant in my family history.
So I eventually submitted my DNA to Ancestry. Through that, I discovered a half brother, aunts, cousins, and eventually was put in contact with my biological mother.
We were able to meet.
And when I met her, I got to tell her something I’d wanted to tell her for as long as I could remember: thank you.
Thank you for giving me life.
I got to tell her about the wonderful parents who adopted me. I got to tell her that I’d had a good life. I got to tell her about my wife and my children. I wanted her to know that the baby she carried in the middle of all that chaos became a man with a family, a calling, people he loves, people who love him, and a life for which he is profoundly grateful.
I’ve never been angry with her. Never. Not once.
For years I told my wife and children that if my biological mother ever found me, I knew exactly what I would say. I wouldn’t condemn her. I wouldn’t demand explanations. I’d simply thank her for allowing me to live.
Because without that decision, I wouldn’t have the extraordinary wife I have today. I wouldn’t know the indescribable joy of my children. I wouldn’t have experienced the friendships, ministry, laughter, sorrow, beauty, failures, victories, and ordinary moments that have made up my life. There are people I love who wouldn’t know me, children who wouldn’t exist, and a story that never would’ve been written.
She gave me the chance to live it.
We still stay in contact. We speak every few months, and I genuinely enjoy hearing her stories and learning about her life. Since the day I met her, I’ve prayed that the Lord would bring her to Himself. I still pray that.
I share all of this because lately I’ve been thinking a great deal about the choices parents make. About life and death. About how much hangs in the balance of decisions made in moments of fear, desperation, darkness, or confusion.
And yes, I’ve been thinking about those three little children whose lives were taken by the very person entrusted with protecting them. It’s difficult for me not to think about my own story alongside theirs. Their lives mattered. Their futures mattered. Everything they might’ve become, everyone they might’ve loved, every ordinary Tuesday morning and Christmas morning and wedding and child and friendship that might’ve filled the decades ahead of them mattered.
And it makes me profoundly grateful that my mother chose differently.
So if there’s a mother or father reading this who’s in a dark place and wondering whether your presence matters, whether your decisions matter, or whether the people who depend on you would somehow be better off without you, please hear me: your choices matter more than you can see from where you’re standing.
Choose life.
Don’t make an irreversible decision in the middle of a season that will pass. Don’t allow a moment of darkness to make a permanent decision about a future you can’t yet see.
Trust the Lord. Ask for help.
@nicksortor From the man that gave us Warp Speed, Covid inflation, stalled out deportations, no Covid arrests, Fake Epstein binder & War with Iran ….
NOPE.
@Cernovich I’d like to be charitable but there is a marked difference.
Everyone feels it.
The spirit coming from the Whitehouse is not congruent to his campaigning.
He changed or it’s his hiring choices..
Either way: It’s on Trump.
American women are realizing they’ve been lied to
This woman just sat and cried, and she’s in tears talking about how alone she is. She has no boyfriend, no husband, no kids
“I am so lonely and so sad. I was just sitting here crying about it — it’s hard to say out loud because it just reminds me of how real it is — I just sat here and ate dinner in complete silence. And the silence is absolutely, like, deafening.
And I just don't think people who have never experienced chronic loneliness understand how painful it is because it's just, like, so painful emotionally to just feel so alone and not have anybody to live your life with.”
This is the lie women were sold. They have their own place, a nice one and things and it means nothing. This woman sits and cries because she has no one to spend her life with
Women need a husband, babies and a family. Thats what they naturally biologically crave. Charlie Kirk would often make posts about this
“It’s just like, life just feels so meaningless when you don't have anybody to share it with.
And there will be so many people saying, like, "You find meaning in your life yourself," or, like, "You need to learn to be..." It's like, I'm sick of that bullsh*t — I'm just feeling lonely, and it f*cking sucks, and it hurts, and it is so painful, and I'm so sad”
This woman needs a relationship and a family. That’s what she’s missing. America is programming women against what they really need
America is falling because we welcomed people from impoverished and dysfunctional countries, they got a better life, and then they hate us for it and want some bizarre ethnic revenge. What a tragic way to lose your home. By being kind. Something has to be done.
Stefan Molyneux: We took the pain out of women’s bad decisions. Then we acted shocked they stopped being careful.
If she doesn’t marry, welfare.
STD, free healthcare.
Child outside wedlock, the state.
Divorce, custody 90% of the time, alimony, child support.
“We’ve just said to women, you will never suffer any negative material consequences from your bad decisions.”
Morality comes from negative consequences. Take them away and people go crazy.
We’ve done that for two or three generations of Western women and shifted the bill to men.
@StefanMolyneux
Just an FYI: If Andrew Kolvet & TPUSA are collaborating with Data Republican & the Department of War, the DOW is the one driving that bus. Which basically means TPUSA is actually now a military operation.
@Brian_Sauve Parents must start thinking & speaking rightly about this.
Starts in the home; honor of a homemaker, duty, responsibility,knowledge, generational blessings.
Parents can’t allow their children to be burdened with debt.
*We have some mid-twenties that are already regretful.