There's a reason I don't charge an initial message fee.
I've had some of the most beautiful dynamics develop because there's a chance to get to know each other before the money.
And no matter how much spam I get, I will always stand by that.
Look after your mental health.
We're not living in good times right now. If this isn't the lifestyle for you, there's no shame in that. Sometimes you need to take a step back and I want to be very clear here that anyone who denies you that is not a good or safe person for you.
@puppy__winter Nooooo that's what makes subs so lovely and fascinating as people!! Like yes, you have this whole ass personality and you still choose to be so free and so comfortable with me (as a Domme, speaking in general terms!)
Hold your fucking balls for a minute. One post calling you pathetic doesnโt mean sheโs the Domme for you. Iโve seen subs put more thought into buying a cage than choosing who gets the key.
If you want more than a quick session, VET her. I wrote about why:
https://t.co/7nihVzvLbE
How do we all feel about the Obedience app? I've used it for a while and quite like it but I've had some subs say it's not the most user friendly app going.
What do we think?
#obedienceapp#bdsm#kink#femdom
If in doubt, reach out! Ask. Discuss. Be prepared to speak.
And if you don't connect, this is a vibrant and vast community. You will find the dynamic you seek.
#findom#finsubs#kinknegotiation
Findom isn't just one thing. It's about finding out what someone wants and if it aligns with what you want. Then you build the dynamic that works for you both: if that's silent sends, content selling, ATM meets, services, humiliation.
#findom#finsubs#kinknegotiation