Unrelated,
My husband shared how he gave a lady a lift recently, and the lady, having listened to our conversation while in the car, told him she liked him and wants to date him.
I simply told him that any lady who knowingly goes after a married man, doesn't do it because she loves that man. She's just trying to use him to get her bills paid.
Here's my opinion on this;
1. If you, as a lady, knowing that a man is married, decide to date him, you're a wicked lady.
2. If you, as a lady, advise a young lady to date a married man to "chop his money", you're an enabler, and equally wicked.
3. If you are aware of the relationship, and do not advise your friend to steer clear, you are an enabler, an olojukokoro, and you are part of the problem.
4. If you, as a man, think that you are doing something grand by neglecting your wife for a "trophy wife", after years of building together, I don't know what to say to you.
Just know that your children will support their mother, so don't cry foul in your old age.
5. If you don't treat your wife well, and cause her pain, some of your children will inherit that pain, and it will deform their outlook in life.
6. Kids born into such situations, have issues with one another. The older kids will see the younger ones as an evidence of your betrayal.
7. Polygamy isn't as glamorous as it looks, but you'll never know, until you're actually in it.
8. Never believe everything you see on social media. People will want you to see their wins and "pepper you" that they're doing well. Don't fall for it.
9. As a young lady, control your appetite. Glamour is good, but so is impact.
10. As a man, have some self respect.
The end.