Eğer bir adam seni ağlarken oturup izleyebiliyor ve seni görmezden geliyorsa, sen iletişim kurmak için yalvarırken o rahatça hiçbir şey olmamış gibi uyuyabiliyorsa, maalesef o adam seni sevmiyor demektir.
One thing about me, I ain’t finna keep questioning a nigga about shit I already see with my own eyes. YOU THINK YOU BEING SLICK, WHOLE TIME I’M JUST DECIDING HOW MUCH LONGER I WANNA DEAL WITH YOU.
i’m too grown to be calling somebody my man when the only thing we do together is lay up behind closed doors. no real dates, no quality time outside the bedroom, never been introduced to anybody important in his life, no consistency outside of when he wanna see me. baby, that’s not a relationship just because y’all talk every day & sleep together. sometimes the hardest part ain’t figuring out what a man wants from you… it’s accepting that what he’s giving you is ALL he intends to give. stop giving somebody a boyfriend title when they only showing up for boyfriend benefits. you can’t keep calling it potential when the pattern been showing you exactly what it is.
I really hate inconsiderate ppl. Ppl who lack common courtesy, don't respect other mfs time, feelings, boundaries, or personal space, and move like they're the only ones who matter. Ppl who never think about how their actions affect others, who expect grace but don't know how to extend it, and who are so wrapped up in themselves that they forget other people have feelings too !!! It's really not that hard to be mindful of others. A little empathy, communication, and basic respect go a long fckn way. Being considerate shouldn't have to be taught to overgrown ass ppl.
a ngga get caught cheating you tell him to go be with other girl, you cool on him. his favorite line be “i don’t want that btch” 😂😂😂😂😂 but wanted her behind my back, i hate nggas! 😂😂😂😂😂
I’m a firm believer in a man gone do everything for the woman he truly wants. Once you have to ask for dates, flowers, communication, quality time, THE BARE MINIMUM & he acts oblivious to you’re request (that you shouldn’t even be asking for) it’s because he don’t like you.
I done carried a man through some of his darkest days just for him to turn around and become the reason I had some of mine. That’s exactly why I don’t brag Baby, sometimes the strongest thing you can do is GET OUT THE CAR and let that ngga crash by himself. 😭
Also, I’ve learned to follow a man’s lead. He doesn’t text? Neither do I. He doesn’t call? Neither do I. Then he’s like “I haven’t heard from you.” And I’m like “same.” That usually ends it. I want a man who can and WILL lead. I’ll reciprocate effort, I will not court a man.
I had to learn the hard way that somebody can love you and still not know how to love you right. Somebody can be crazy about you, want you around, and say all the right things, but still hurt you with how they act. I don't care how strong somebody's feelings are if they don't know how to treat you with respect, be honest with you, and actually show up for you. I don't need somebody who loves me with their words but treats me like I don't matter with their actions. If you love me that much, I shouldn't have to beg you to treat me like it.