I grew up thinking having morals and integrity was normal because my entire life people have always praised me for it. But now I’m realizing it’s actually rare😭
A man unfortunately called me wife material for saying I like natural hair, so my position on this has changed. I am currently booking an appointment for a buss down middle part 36 inch Cambodian wig installation.
As an adult I’m learning that a lot of other adults do not have the capacity for tough conversations, repair and emotional intelligence and I don’t have to put up with it if I don’t want too. I can very much leave someone where they are at.
i don’t think people realize how exhausting it is to constantly downplay what you feel just so you don’t come across as difficult. you start shrinking before anyone even asks.