“Our birth dates were an event, not an annual subscription that needs celebrating. And no I’m not anti-fun, I’m just anti-organizing my personality around a date on a calendar. I celebrate my existence every day by surviving.”
this jane doe stuff is irritating me bc as more and more is coming out, people are really trying to ignore the fact that just bc she consented to one thing, doesn’t mean she consented to ALL things. so many sick weirdos i share the air with.
Seeing men already sharing this as proof that she lied about the whole thing and defending the rapists so clearly people need a reminder here.
This text is from October 21st. It wasn’t until November 8th she found out everything and reported the rape. It even says in this message she only addresses Jonathan and Matt because she initially agreed to a THREESOME. At this time she did not know about the group chat or that Johnathan was advertising her drugged and unconscious body to his 57 frat brothers. She even says in the first sentence her memory is still clouded.
Also the reason she says the gangbang rumors don’t matter is because at this time she was still under the impression she only had a THREESOME with Johnathan and Matt. To her the rest are rumors and it wasn’t until much later after she was the snapchats that she was finally able to piece it all together. Johnathan is apologizing for other men being in the room but makes no mention that they actually participated in the sex. She has no reason to think anything different at this moment. It isn’t until later that she realized what happened which we already heard in the call she had with Winston. TMZ releasing this is incredibly ignorant and they know it’s just hurting her more.
I'm a big fan of the "Tell Them Theory"
Seriously, if your waiter was awesome, tell them. If your friend looks great, let her know. Did someone inspire you? Shoot them a message. Your colleague handled a tough situation like a pro? Tell them that. A small business really impressed you? Go leave them a review. You admire how consistent someone is? Speak up! Does your partner make you feel loved? Make sure they know. Someone's smile brightened your whole day? Tell them! Was someone's courage inspiring? Let them know it. A friend stuck by you through thick and thin? Remind them how much that meant.
Being kind is most powerful when you actually say it out loud. Be that person who makes someone feel a little more confident in themselves.
this is so funny because jungkook was originally chasing after seokjin but ALL OF A SUDDEN he changed target and started chasing after yoongi i can't stop laughing you guys FKSJFKSJKD ♡
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